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Shaela Acevedo
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Cynthia Acevedo
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Sharing my experience so others can spot patterns and save their time and protect their peace. Early on he was very attentive, loving and supportive. I had a whole relationship with this man and would not recommend meeting even as a client, much less as a date-_he’s entitled and everything is about power and control for him but he hides it; he presents at first as very charming, self aware and will say all the right things because ‘he’s such an ally’ but deep down it’s all a mask and a transaction. He’s deeply insecure, does not respect women and is racist and, when he doesn’t get things his way, he shows his true colors and gets aggressive. He looks for younger women (especially immigrant) to make himself feel more masculine and try to control them into being submissive. You’re just there to make him look younger and boost his ego. The relationship later slid into cycles of blame, mental health shaming and constant put-downs, and pressure to minimize my feelings. I discovered his cheating at a time my mental health was already low, and he tried to flip the script in every way to avoid accountability for his choices. When I tried to leave, he responded with coercion, intimidation and control demanding to be treated with affection despite the multiple breaches of trust and safety, and directly threatened things I essentially depended on, which left me deeply unsafe—| ultimately had to call police to help me exit. Apologies after that came without sustained change and attempts to control the narrative. Gaslighting at its finest. If you notice love-bombing followed by contempt, refusal to take accountability, or blaming you for his shortcomings especially when he’s upset and out of control, trust your gut, document everything, and prioritize your safety. You can’t run fast enough. TL;DR Don’t waste your time. Not worth the energy or any money you could get. Insecure, entitled and aggressive who will play low and demand the world just to try and break your spirit