“Lying, cheating ex named Brian currently based in Emeryville/ Oakland. Originally from Cupertino/ Sunnyvale. He poses as polyam/ENM, but he cheated on me for the last 8 months of our relationship (probably more, honestly) & gaslit me the entire time. In March 2023, he & his ex fiancée broke up. He said I was his only partner until October 2023, when he told me that he wanted to start dating again. I had a hard time coping with this, but I still supported him. And I had very clear boundaries on how & when I wanted to receive information. I told him that I wanted to know when he went on dates, whether he invited anyone over to his
apartment (because he expressly said that he wanted me to feel comfortable and at home there), & when he had new sexual partners.
He completely disregarded all of this, & began a romantic & sexual relationship with another woman, ak, in October of 2023 & never told me about it. I have since corroborated & confirmed several other hard boundaries he violated as well. He shared shibari rope between us, he shared a sex toy between THREE OF US (myself, M9, &
his ex fiancée) And he had unprotected sex with 1 for the first time a few days BEFORE we broke up. With FULL KNOWLEDGE that she has an STI (HPV. Very common and manageable, but the kind that can cause CERVICAL CANCER). And with FULL KNOWLEDGE that he & l had been having unprotected sex for a year & a half by that point. Keep safe & stay TF away.”
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Supervisor, Gas GIS Analytics & Reporting at Pacific Gas and Electric Company
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Charles J Bedord
Jean Newman Bedord
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